My Fabulous Gay Wedding

2007-02-12T16:22:00.000-05:00

'First Comes Love' to Premiere with Joa and Denis tonight on LOGO

After months of planning and celebrating, the second season of First Comes Love will debut tonight at 10pm EST on LOGO with Joa and Denis' wedding. Each week, host Elvira Kurt and wedding guru Fern Cohen meet a new gay couple and attempt to give them the wedding of their dreams.

New episodes will air each Monday starting tonight at 10EST with encore presentations throughout the week. Please check the TV schedule on www.logoonline.com for more info! All episodes will also be available online a few days after their television premiere.

After meeting on vacation in Greece 11 years ago, Joa decided to move from Germany to Toronto to be with Denis. Now, the families are coming in from overseas for the wedding and their newly purchased home has proven to be a true money pit! The entire budget for the wedding has been sunk into home repair and these grooms are now planning a backyard wedding! It’s up to Elvira and Fern to call in a few favors to make a fabulous wedding happen on a shoestring budget!

Please stay tuned each week while a new couple walks down the aisle in style in celebration of their Fabulous Gay Wedding. Next, Fern and Susan have a traditional Jewish Ceremony on Feb. 19th and Brian and Neal celebrate a masquerade style wedding on Feb. 26th!

Please tell us what you think about the show? How do you like the couples? The weddings? Please contact LOGO by clicking HERE.

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2007-01-11T10:22:00.001-05:00

Love and Pride Surprises Couples on First Comes Love

Our fabulous friends at Love and Pride surprised some of our couples with a selection of rings to choose from for their wedding day! Udi Behr, the designer for the whole jewelry line personally made an appearance to give the rings to our happy couples.
A native of Israel, Udi lived through three wars determined to create things of beauty and to promote peace. After learning his trade in the Tel Aviv diamond industry, his fame as an original designer took off in New York in 1983. His jewelry collections have been showcased in legendary stores such as Sak's and Macy's, and worn by celebrities from Angela Bassett to Britney Spears. You can visit Loveandpride.com and Loveandpride.ca. Udi and the entire family at Love and Pride wish the best to all of our couples. Congratulations!

2007-01-10T11:25:00.000-05:00

Lane and Mike Celebrate Their Fabulous Gay Wedding!

On January 7th, 2007, Lane and Mike got married at the historical Miller Lash House in Toronto. Both Lane and Mike have a military background, and some military elements were used in their quaint ceremony in the middle of a valley. The grooms were excited to have their friends and family fly in from Baltimore, Miami and Virginia for their special day. Lane remarks "This is just incredible, you guys went beyond anything I could have ever expected". Mike was happy with the choice of venue: "This place is just perfect, it has that romantic feel while still being a bit rustic". Funnylady Elvira Kurt enjoyed the ceremony which was complete with bagpipes and a bugle player. "I've had so much fun with these boys and this wedding is totally them!". This was the last of this seasons Fabulous Gay Weddings! Thank you all for a great year!

Flowers were provided by 1-800-FLOWERS
Limo Service provided in part by Wave Limo.
Tuxes provided in part by Freeman Formal.
Catering provided in part by Daniel et Daniel.
Accomodations provided in part by The Grand Hotel.
Lane and Mike and their wedding party dined at Lüb Bistro-Lounge the night before the wedding.
Lane and Mike with host Elvira Kurt enjoyed drinks at Fuzion on Church Street.
Mike and Elvira enjoyed dinner at Grill Time on Yonge Street.

Lane and Mike with host Elvira Kurt ate more crabs than they could count at Bo Brooks in Baltimore.

View more photos of the wedding HERE

See photos of Jen and Emily's wedding HERE
See photos of Thom and Juan's wedding HERE
See photos from Mandy and Denika'swedding HERE
See photos from Brian and Neal's weddingHERE
See photos from Joa and Denis' wedding HERE
See photos from Fern and Susan's wedding HERE

2006-12-15T10:42:00.000-05:00

Romney Can't Make up his Mind

Massachusetts Governer Mitt Romney seems to flip-flop on gay rights more than the footwear of the same name. In 1994, he asked for the gay community's support in his Senate campaign. He also stated that "the gay community needs more support from the Republican Party". Now he's saying "Like the vast majority of Americans, I've opposed same-sex marriage, but I've also opposed unjust discrimination against anyone, for racial or religious reasons, or for sexual preference". He seems to not be able to make-up his mind. He avoids gay issues in rallies, but wants the gay community to support him privately. This one just seems like every other Republican to me.
Read the full article HERE

2006-12-13T15:13:00.000-05:00

Jen and Emily Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding

On the crisp morning of December 9th, Jen and Emily were wed at the historic George Brown House in Toronto. Host Elvira Kurt was impressed by the elegance of venue: "This house is amazing! These girls really deserve this beautiful of a wedding." Jen was impressed by how well everything went together, "It just all came together, beyong what I was imagining in my head. Fern really worked her magic!". Emily was happy to be surrounded by her new family. Many tears were shed during a string of emotional speaches. One more Fabulous Wedding down. This one is definately for the books!

Catering, Decor and Cakes provided in part by Daniel et Daniel
Limosine service provided in part by Wave Limo
Quartet led by Mohsin Bhujwalla. 416.413.0986
Jen and Emily ate at Lub Bistro Lounge the night before their wedding
Flowers provided by Floral Fetish Design
Accomodations provided by The Grand Hotel in Toronto

View photos of the wedding HERE. All photos courtesy of Katia Taylor

See photos of Thom and Juan's weddingHERE
See photos from Mandy and Denika'swedding HERE
See photos from Brian and Neal's weddingHERE
See photos from Joa and Denis' wedding HERE
See photos from Fern and Susan's wedding HERE

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2006-12-08T11:42:00.000-05:00

Cast Announced for Season Two of "First Comes Love"

Casting for season two of LOGO's "First Comes Love" is now complete. We are happy to announce the lucky couples getting the help of funnylady Elvira Kurt and wedding guru Fern Cohen for their big day! Please stay tuned for more news on First Comes Love!
Joa and Denis

After meeting on vacation in Greece 11 years ago, Joa decided to move from Germany to Toronto to be with Denis. Now, the families are coming in from overseas for the wedding and their newly purchased home has proven to be a true money pit! The entire budget for the wedding has been exasperated into home repair and these grooms are now planning a backyard wedding! It’s up to Elvira and Fern to call in a few favors to make a fabulous wedding happen on a shoestring budget!

Fern and Susan

Fern and Susan have been together for years, whether it’s thirteen or fifteen years depends on who you ask. These two can’t agree on anything, especially the guest list for their traditional Jewish ceremony. Oy vey! Their seven year-old son Ronny has never seen them fight until the talk of the wedding started. This however is all Ronny’s fault, who told his moms that they were just friends until they got married. A caterer has been hired and the guests all have the date, but no one knows where to go! Fern really wants an outdoor setting for her Chuppah but can’t find the right place. It is up to Fern Cohen and Elvira to find the perfect backdrop for this Jewish lesbian wedding!

Brian and Neal

Brian and Neal could not be more different. They are an interracial, interfaith, cross-generational couple looking to have that “wow factor” on their special day. Guests are unaware that the wedding will be a masquerade or that entertainment acts will be showcased. However, the wedding is three weeks away and Brian and Neal have yet to audition acts or purchase the masks for their wedding! On top of all that, Brian plans on catering the event himself! Can Elvira and Fern put the “Wow” into their wedding on such short notice?

Mandy and Denika

Mandy and Denika are two social workers from Chicago who work with kids and want children of their own. It’s important for them to start a family just like other families do: with marriage. They are determined to structure their wedding around the traditional ways but building new traditions with a gay twist! They also wish to include the broom-jumping ceremony performed by slaves in America when they were not allowed to marry. These two are having trouble making the arrangements for their big day and need Fern’s help to finalize their dreams. Having invited half of their flag-football team to the wedding, this is sure to be an exciting party for these sporty moms-to-be.

Thom and Juan

Thom and Juan fell in love in a nightclub in steamy Miami. They moved in together right away and are now planning a church ceremony for their wedding. Thomas has been part of Juan’s family for years, but still longs for a family of his own. Thom’s grandparents who raised him passed away and has only recently discovered who his father is, although this connection isn’t as perfect as it seems. Thom and Juan’s godson Michael is the most important link to their family, but he and his mother can’t make it to the wedding. Elvira needs to pull this family together for this special occasion while Fern makes the arrangements for a same-sex church wedding!

Jen and Emily

When Jen posted a roommate ad, never did she think she would find the woman of her dreams knocking on her door! Jen and Emily have already started a family with three unexpected children: their dogs! Their own families could not be more different. Jen’s family loves Emily and has accepted her with open arms. Emily’s parents are less than content with her engagement to Jen but they are still determined to have the best day of their lives. These girls really want a wedding that is memorable and above all “classic”. It’s up to Elvira and Fern to make these dog loving girls’ dreams come true.

Mike and Lane

Sir, yes sir! Elvira Kurt will be taking Mike and Lane through a Gay Wedding Boot Camp! Lane was a medic in the Airforce and Mike was a tanker in the army. Now these star-crossed loving soldiers are planning their big day in less than three weeks! Recent unresolved family feuds might impede Mike’s mother from attending, but Lane is determined to patch things up so that no one is missing while their military-style ceremony takes place in a surprise venue! Lane, the self proclaimed sports-nut, would love nothing more than the be wed on the centre-ice of a hockey arena, Mike on the other hand is more romantic and would prefer a more traditional setting. Can Fern and Elvira make both of these Privates happy?

2006-11-30T15:13:00.000-05:00

South Africa Legalises Same-Sex Marriage

Who would have thought that a country in Africa, a continent where some countries punish homosexuality by death, would be the fifth country to legalise gay marriage! Thank you South Africa for joining Canada, Belgium, The Netherlands and Spain in a movement towards equal rights around the world.

Read the full article HERE

2006-11-23T11:41:00.000-05:00

Thom and Juan Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding

After meeting in a bar years ago, Thom and Juan got married in the quaint Deer Park United Church in Toronto, Ontario. With beautiful stained glass behind them, Thom and Juan wed wearing Greek wedding crowns in this Greek/Latino wedding! They enjoyed a lavish dinner at Myth after the church ceremony where all of their friends and family from Florida and New York joined in the celebration. "These boys are the most genuine guys I think I've ever encountered. I wish them nothing but the best" claimed Elvira Kurt shortly after the wedding.

Limo Service provided by Wave Limo.
Additional flowers provided by Fresh Floral Creations.
Accommodations provided in part by The Grand Hotel.
Photography provided in part by Capture Your Day .

For more photos of the wedding, click HERE

See photos from Mandy and Denika'swedding HERE
See photos from Brian and Neal's weddingHERE
See photos from Joa and Denis' wedding HERE
See photos from Fern and Susan's wedding HERE

2006-11-22T09:59:00.000-05:00

Canada to Revisit Gay Marriage

Talk about beating a dead horse. Apparently our "friend' Stephen Harper is still itchy about the whole gay marriage thing. They're still going at the "protect the children" angle. You know, because gay parents enjoy putting plastic bags over the heads of their offspring. There is to be a vote in parliament on whether or not to reopen discussions on gay marriage. No date has been set for this vote, but the minority Conservative government seems too eager to bring this whole debate back to life. Aren't there more important things for them to talk about other than a equitable law already in action? Puh-leaze!

Read the full article HERE.

2006-11-16T14:06:00.000-05:00

12 Reasons why Same-Sex Couples Shouldn't be Allowed to Marry

1 Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural.
2 Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.
3 Obviously gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.
4 Straight marriage will be less meaningful, since Britney Spears's 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
5 Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and it hasn't changed at all: women are property, Blacks can't marry Whites, and divorce is illegal.
6 Gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.
7 Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are always imposed on the entire country. That's why we only have one religion in America.
8 Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.
9 Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.
10 Children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. That's why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
11 Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven't adapted to cars or longer lifespans.
12 Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a "separate but equal" institution is always constitutional. Separate schools for African-Americans worked just as well as separate marriages will for gays & lesbians.

2006-11-15T10:22:00.000-05:00

South Africa Passes Same-Sex Marriage Bill

South Africa's Parliament legalized same-sex marriage on Tuesday making it the fifth country in the world to do so. The downside is that civil officers still have the right to refuse to marry same-sex couples if they think it's all icky and stuff....
It still must be approved by the National Council of Provinces, the upper house of Parliament and be signed by the President Thabo Mbeki. We're on a roll here; Five countries down, one hundred and eightynine to go!

Read the full store HERE.

2006-11-13T11:25:00.000-05:00

Mexico City's Legislative Assembly Approves Gay Civil Unions

Who would have thought that the birthplace of Machismo would be so far ahead in equal rights for Homo Machos? Benefits extended to same-sex couples in Mexico include inheritence and pension rights. The decision was backed by the PRD party although the right winged politicians are moving towards reversing the decision. Read the full story HERE

2006-11-09T11:33:00.000-05:00

Mandy and Denika Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding!

On November 5th, 2006, Mandy and Denika were united in matrimony aboard the Showboat on Lake Ontario. Mariposa Cruises provided the elegant boat for the happy couple from Chicago. "Who get's married on a boat? No one I know!" Claimed Mandy as she was surprised by her venue only two days before the actual wedding. The girls were floored at the flowers, food and decor on their special day. The sky was a bright pink at sunset which is exactly when the girls were wed. Elvira Kurt thought that the city backdrop with the sunset was the most beautiful setting for a wedding. Congratulations for another Fabulous Gay Wedding!

Mandy's Hair was styled at Toni and Guy in Yorkville. 102 Bloor Street West, Toronto. 416.920.7775
Denika's Hair was styled at Salon One on Church Street
DJ Provided by Mariposa Cruises
Catering provided by Mariposa Cruises
Decorations provided by Elevated Events
Cake Provided by Daniel et Daniel
Flowers provided by Fresh Flowers
Mandy and Denika enjoyed a romantic dinner the night before the wedding at Peridot
Limo service provided by Wave Limo

For more photos of the wedding, click HERE

See photos from Brian and Neal's weddingHERE
See photos from Joa and Denis' wedding HERE
See photos from Fern and Susan's wedding HERE

2006-11-08T10:58:00.001-05:00

Colorado Passes Gay Marriage Ban, Ex-Nay Gay Benefits

Just what the country needed, more legalized inequality. Not only is gay marriage banned in Colorado, benefits for same sex partners have also been rejected. Read more HERE

2006-11-06T18:26:00.000-05:00

Brian and Neal Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding

On Saturday October the 28th 2006, Brian and Neal, along with their entire families, celebrated their wedding at the Gloucester Square Inn in Toronto. As a surprise, the guests of the wedding were given masks to wear after the ceremony for the masquerade themed wedding! Elvira Kurt claimed it was one of the most fun weddings she had ever seen. The wedding party was entertained by several acts including a belly dancer, bollywood dancers and a flamenco dancer! Although fairly cold, hearts were warmed by the vows exchanged in a moving ceremony in the middle of the courtyard. Congratulations to another happy couple.

On Sunday November 5th, Mandy and Denika were wed on a showboat! Pictures to Come. The next wedding is Thomas and Juan's on November 19th! More Fabulous Gay Wedding updates to come!

Masks provided by Theatrix Costume House
Limo service provided by Wave Limo
Feature drink recipe researched at Peridot Resto Lounge
Brian and Neal's bachelor party took place at Voglie on 582 Church Street in Toronto. 416.929.9108
Belly dancer Amara from Arabesque can be reached at shakelikeshakira@yahoo.co.uk
Bollywood dancers and flamenco dancer provided by Bollywood Grooves
Massage provided by Mark Jackson

View more photos of Brian and Neal's wedding HERE

See photos from Joa and Denis' wedding HERE

See photos from Fern and Susan's wedding HERE

2006-11-02T10:03:00.000-05:00

Love and Pride Jewelry To Sponsor First Comes Loves

Loveandpride.ca is home to the world’s first designer jewelry collection for gays and lesbians and will be the featured jeweler on the second season of First Comes Love. Featured in People, The New York Times, Out and The Advocate, this collection celebrates who we are with rings, necklaces, bracelets, watches and accessories in eye-catching designs for every budget, from $30 to $7,000. Love and Pride is the brainchild of acclaimed jewelry designer, Udi Behr, whose creations have been worn by celebrities from Sharon Stone and Britney Spears to rapper Ludacris.

“It is exciting to be entering a market where same-sex marriage is already legal,” said Udi Behr, president and designer of Love and Pride. “We feel that Canadians are more open to embracing the collection because same-sex marriage in Canada is less of a taboo.”

Behr’s sentiments are reflected in Love and Pride’s daring print and outdoor advertising campaign for Canada, which the company expects will generate lots of buzz. Against a backdrop of beautiful same-sex models wearing Love and Pride jewelry, the campaign slogan reads: “America’s too straight for this.”

The designer, who is straight, created Love and Pride to support the gay community in its struggle for marriage equality and currently donates 10% of sales outside Canada to Lambda Legal, a leading gay rights organization in the US. LoveandPride.ca will continue this commitment by donating 10% of Canadian sales to a non-profit gay rights organization in Canada.

Love and Pride is excited to be a new sponsor for the second season of First Comes Love, formally known as My Fabulous Gay Wedding. First Comes Love will be premiering on LOGO starting on Valentine's Day 2007. Casting is still in progress. Any gay couples planning on getting married should contact castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca and visit http://myfabgaywedding.blogspot.com for more information.

2006-11-01T13:02:00.000-05:00

Fresh Florals Opens New Location in Toronto

Fresh Floral Creations opened on the Danforth this September to jaw dropping results. Inspired by urban New York loft-living, this 1900 square foot space is an absolute stunner.

Fresh now offers more products than ever before. In fact, Bruno Duarte has travelled the world in search of the ultimate in fresh accessories. Look for specially selected planters, vases and indoor plants, in addition to the chic floral arrangements that Bruno has become known for.

Fresh Floral Creations on the Danforth is set amidst one of Toronto's most vibrant and comsopolitan neighborhoods. The Danforth has long been a unique destination for dining, shopping, and people watching. And now it's a destination for inspired floral design as well.

Fresh Florals is proud to be a featured supplier for season two of My Fabulous Gay Wedding / First Comes Love.

2006-10-31T14:15:00.000-05:00

Conservative Group Gives $385,000 to Support Gay Marriage Ban

Don't you love to hear that worthy causes, like marriage equality, having such financial support? Too bad it's going to the wrong side! The Coalition for America's Families has received $385, 000 towards its campaign for a ban on gay marriage. Take a look here for more on this horrid story.

2006-10-30T16:32:00.000-05:00

Elvira Kurt and Fern Cohen Plan Your Fabulous Gay Wedding!

Elvira Kurt and wedding planning guru Fern Cohen are still on the hunt for more Fabulous Gay Couples! If you are planning on getting married in the Vancouver, Toronto, Niagara Falls, Ottawa or Montreal regions, e-mail castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca for more information on how to get on the show!

2006-10-27T15:40:00.000-05:00

10% Off of Food From Fabulous Gay Restaurants

The days are getting colder, but our weddings are still hot hot hot! Neal and Brian are getting married on October 28th, will everything be ready in time? Let’s hope so! Please note that casting is still in process and we need more energetic couples getting hitched! Please contact castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca for more details!

Good news for you fine dining lovers: I have assembled a restaurant listing of friends of My Fabulous Gay Wedding giving a special discount if you make reservations to dine before November 12th. Just mention My Fabulous Gay Wedding while making your reservation. Some restrictions may apply. Please print out this e-mail and present it upon arrival. Here is the list, pass this on to friends! Please enjoy!

CAJU
Quality Brazilian inspired food at its best. Caju provides a quaint environment with impeccable taste.
Please visit them at www.caju.ca
If you refer to My Fabulous Gay Wedding upon the reservation by November 12th 2006, a 10% discount will be provided on food.

922 Queen Street West
Toronto, Ontario.
416.532.2550

PERIDOT
Mediterranean Cuisine in an elegantly renovated gem in the heart of Downtown. Peridot is perfect for a romantic dinner, or a large party!
Peridot will be featured in Brian and Neal’s episode!
Please visit them at www.peridotrestolounge.com
If you refer to My Fabulous Gay Wedding upon the reservation by November 12th 2006, and present this printout, a 10% discount will be provided on food.

81 Bloor Street East
Toronto, Ontario.
416.515.7560

SINTRA
Located in the heart of Little Italy, this elegant Portuguese restaurant is a must to visit.
Please visit them at www.dine.to/sintra
If you refer to My Fabulous Gay Wedding upon the reservation by November 12th 2006, a 10% discount will be provided on food.

588 College Street
Toronto, Ontario.
416.533.1106

VOGLIE
A recent addition to the village, Voglie has already become a favorite hang-out to many in the community. It’s perfect for an elegant dinner or for drinks and dancing upstairs. Voglie will be featured in Fern and Susan’s episode as well as Neal and Brian’s episode
If you refer to My Fabulous Gay Wedding upon the reservation by November 12th 2006, and present this printout, a 10% discount will be provided on food.

582 Church Street
Toronto, Ontario
416.929.9108

2006-10-26T09:34:00.000-05:00

Small Step for Same-Sex Marriage in New Jersey

The New Jersey Supreme Court had just announced that legislature must provide equal protection to same-sex couples. And unlike MA, out-of-state residents will still be able to have their union celebrated (only to go back home to challenge it in local courts). It's still not "marriage", that "m" word that politicians are so afraid of, but at least it's a step toward what we've (and by we, I mean those hard-working activists and not lonely bloggers such as myself) have been fighting for. This could not have happened without the persistence of groups such as Lambda Legal, pushing for equality in a very unequal world.

Read more HERE.

2006-10-25T15:00:00.000-05:00

Sneak Preview Snapshots of My Fabulous Gay Wedding!

Joa and Denis
Clockwise from top left: Here is a shot of Joa and Denis at Daniel et Daniel tasting the potential cakes for their wedding. Then, Joa and Denis visit Jordan Stuart to pick up their wedding bands. Bottom right is the picture Joa and Denis submitted for their audition! And finally Joa and Denis on their special day, right after getting married. Click on the images to see a larger version!

Fern and Susan
Clockwise from top left: Fern and Susan enjoy a game of croquet with Elvira Kurt! Then, Fern and Suan are surprised by a special gift by their son Ronny. The bottom pictures are both from their outdoor ceremony under the Chuppa. Click on the images for larger version. Congratulations to both of these couples.

More pictures of Joa and Denis' Wedding.

More pictures of Fern and Susan's Wedding.

My Fabulous Gay Wedding / First Comes Love is still casting for season two! Please contact castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca for more info.

2006-10-24T11:36:00.000-05:00

Reinas Rule!

Since Spain recently declared same-sex marriage legal, the first mainstream movie to attack the subject proved how gay couples go through the same issues than straight couples (just with nicer shoes). Reinasor "Queens" premiered in gay and lesbian film festivals around the world to critical acclaim. I was lucky enough to attend the screening at Inside Out, the Toronto Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. Please take a look at the trailer here. It's amazing to see all of these leading ladies in the same film! It's bound to be known as one of the best queer films ever made! Visit Queens - The Movie.

2006-10-23T09:49:00.000-05:00

The Irish Support Gay Marriage

Who isn't a sucker for a handsome Irishman or Irishlady? Recent polls have shown that almost two thirds of the Irish population support same-sex marriage. The highest demographic being young women. The only real problem is that the same poll gave numbers saying that most opposed same-sex couple adoption. Does this seem a little twisted? At least it's a step in the right direction.

My Fabulous Gay Wedding is still casting! Please email castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca for details.

2006-10-20T12:36:00.000-05:00

Homophobic Gardeners in Texas?

A Homophobic business in Texas doesn't seem that out of the ordinary, but to make their homophobia stated in writing knowing how easily things leak on the interner? It's totally priceless. I know this has nothing to do with gay weddings, but I wanted to post it anyways. The original link blurb was on Queerty.com. Please read their email back to a potential client:

From: Garden Guy Inc
Date: October 18, 2006 9:08:36 AM CDT
To: [xxxxxx]@houston.rr.com
Subject: Cancel Appt -Garden Guy
Dear Mr. [X],

I am appreciative of your time on the phone today and glad you
contacted us. I need to tell you that we cannot meet with you because we choose not to
work for homosexuals.

Best of luck in finding someone else to fill your landscaping needs.

All my best,

Sabrina

Todd and Sabrina Farber
Owners, Garden Guy, Inc.

visit us at: Garden Guy, Inc

Member of the Association of Professional Landscape Designers

Creating beautiful landscaping for Houston homeowners since 1991!

Phone 281-208-4400
Fax 1+801-365-9353
email: sabrina@garden-guy.com
email: todd@garden-guy.com

Doesn't it seem overtly courtious for such an offensive letter? Oh, and feel free to email or fax or call them for your "landscaping needs". Just don't tell them who sent you *wink*.

2006-10-18T11:18:00.000-05:00

Steven Harper Loves Gays! Yeah Right...

The Globe and Mail has recently reported that Canadian Conservative Prime Minister Steven Harper is preparing legislation that will allow public officials to refuse to issue marriage licenses or perform civil ceremonies for same-sex couples. Now he's saying that this isn't true. Well, we sure hope so! And on top of that, this supposed legislation would also defend members of the church form hate crimes! Are we really taking two steps back? Religious Institutions are under no obligation to marry same-sex couples, but this is about basic civil rights. It's not likely to happen, but it's the thought that counts, right?

Please read the full story at 365 Gay

2006-10-17T12:10:00.000-05:00

Bill Maher on Gay Marriaage

Although his opinions on different matters vary (he's not the most consistent of critics), his views on gay marriage are admirable. Please take a look at what Bill Maher thinks about the gay marriage debate.

2006-10-13T12:30:00.000-05:00

Archbishop Terence Finley Suspended for Same-Sex Wedding

Rev. Terence Finlay married Mary Rowe and Sandra Morris in June 2006 in a Toronto United Church. He has now been suspended from performing wedding until further notice. This is the same Archbishop who fired fellow priest Jim Ferry in 1991 for being in a homosexual relationship. He claims that his views on same-sex marriage have developped since this incident. A lot seems to be going on in the Anglican Church, they really need to make up their minds as to which way they swing.

Read the full article on ctv.ca

2006-10-11T15:27:00.000-05:00

Human Rights Campaign Wants YOU to Come Out!

Janet Jackson, Bill Clinton, Sharon Stone, Cristopher Meloni, Dorothy Height and many more make very strong statements about equal rights for non-heteros. Come out, come out wherever you are! Public awareness of Coming Out Day is helping let everyone know that so many people are still int he closet, and we need the strength of numbers. Please take a look at this announcement. Booyah!

2006-10-10T09:21:00.000-05:00

Gay Marriage Debate on Family Guy

In this episode, Brian's cousin Jasper plans on getting married to his smooth Filipino boyfriend at Lois and Peter's house. Lois goes to her priest to discuss her issues with gay marriage. He decides to show her a film made by God himself. Please enjoy!

2006-10-06T15:44:00.000-05:00

My Fabulous Gay Wedding FAQ and Audition Tips

Many of you have been emailing me with some great questions about the show and the casting process. I have put together and FAQ and some tips about auditioning for the show. Enjoy!

Q:Are you still casting for the show?
A: Yes we are. We are looking for energetic, fun, outgoing gay couples getting married in 2006.
Q: Where are you casting?
A:Couples must be getting married in the Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, Niagara Falls or Vancouver areas.
Q:I don't live in those areas, but I'm getting married there. Can I apply for the show?
A:Yes you can! You can live anywhere in the United States or Canada as long as the actual wedding is taking place in one of the assigned areas.
Q:Why can't I have my commitment ceremony in my homestate featured on the show?
A:It is very important for us to feature legally valid same-sex marriages. Even if Americans will not have their marriage recognized in their home state, it is still a legally binding ceremony in Canada.
Q:Who is the host of the show?
A: Funny-lady extraordinaire Elvira Kurt is our smashing new host.
Q: What's it in for us?
A: Selected couples get an experience of a lifetime. They also receive a generous additional budget for the wedding, as well as a honeymoon package. The additional budget and the honeymoon package are to be discussed only with selected couples.
Q:How do I apply to the show?
A: You simply email castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca and write a short story of how you two met, include some fun pictures and your contact information.
Q: I've been contacted by the show, they want an interview. What does that entail?
A: Couples that make it past the initial screening process are asked to be interviewed on tape. If you live in the Toronto area, a representative from the show will arrange to meet and videotape an interview for about one hour. If you live outside of the Toronto area, a representative of the show will arrange a date and time to call for a formal interview. The couple must provide a camcorder which uses Minicam tapes to film themselves for the show and mail it in. A phone with speakerphone would also be necessary.
Q: I really want to audition, but I don't want to make a decision about being on the show just yet. Is that okay?
A: Absolutely. There are no contractual obligations by simply auditioning. Only and when the release is signed are you obligated to go ahead with the show.
Q: I've seen last years episodes. Do you still plan the entire wedding for the couple?
A: This season is more documentary style than a make-over show. Couples are mostly planning their own wedding and we are documenting the process. The show does of course help cover costs and upgrades certain purchases to assure you really do have a Fabulous Gay Wedding!

Audition Tape Tips

1.- Relax. Before the audition, have a drink, take a walk, scream, do whatever it takes to feel completely relaxed. Being nervous is completely normal. Network executives understand if you are feeling a little tense, but try to be as relaxed as possible.
2.- If you are filming yourselves from home, please make sure you have a good camcorder, you are using it properly and that the camera is close to the both of you. Having a camera far away with an extreme zoom may look fine, but the audio won't be sufficient and your tape may be rejected.
3.- Be lively! Don't be afraid to tell a joke, or a funny story that happened to you. Network executives want to see very honest and joyful people. If it seems as if you aren't willing to laugh at yourself or connect with our humorous host, your chances of being selected are greatly reduced.
4.- Be yourselves! We aren't looking for perfect people. There is no need to pretend to be Mary Poppins, Donna Reed or a Brady. Act how you normally act around new people. If you are on the show, you will be working with lots of new people. We need to be sure you are the way you portray yourself on video.
5.- Dress for success. Make sure you are dressed in colors contrasting those behind you (walls, couch, etc). Don't wear your pyjamas or houseclothes. Dress exactly how you would dress on shooting days, but don't go overglam either!

2006-10-06T09:21:00.000-05:00

California Must Wait Even Longer for Gay Marriage

Apparently, there's something wrong with rewriting "fundamental institutions such as marriage", even when it means making such an institution more inclusive.

"In the latest turn to a long and winding legal fight over same-sex marriage, a California appeals court on Thursday upheld the state’s ban against it.

The 2-to-1 decision, which reversed a lower court’s finding that the ban violated the California Constitution, said the plaintiffs in the case were asking the courts “to recognize a new right,” a step it said only the Legislature or the voters could take".

"The mood among supporters of a right to same-sex marriage, meanwhile, was still optimistic, despite a series of earlier legal setbacks around the nation, including defeats at the high-court level in New York and Washington State and Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger’s veto of a bill, adopted by the Democratic-controlled Legislature, that would have lifted California’s ban".

Read the full article in The New York Times

2006-10-05T12:17:00.000-05:00

Elvira Kurt Goes Back to GIRLS SCHOOL!

GIRLS SCHOOL is the hottest touring comedy showcase of Canada’s best and brightest female comics. It’s also the only touring comedy showcase of Canada’s best and brightest female comics. And it’s about freakin’ time!

Why? Research has found that girls in girl’s schools perform better than girls in co-ed schools. And that when girls go to GIRLS SCHOOL, they stop being the audience and become the players.

GIRLS SCHOOL is an all girl comedy movement dedicated to the 3 R’s: Revelry, Revolution and Rentertainment.

GIRLS SCHOOL blasts open its doors with `the over-est achievers from our honour roll. Elvira Kurt will host a line up featuring standup from Laurie Elliott, Katie Crown and Dawn Whitwell, improv from Lisa Brooke & Lisa Merchant, author Diane Flacks, character and video from Kathleen Phillips, Susan Fischer as Evelyn Reese, music from Ali Eisner, the outrageous antics of Leslie and the Ly's, and plenty more!

Now take your hall pass and go directly to: www.myspace.com/girlsschool

2006-10-03T10:31:00.000-05:00

Judge Allows Same-Sex Non-Residents to Marry

What you say? It seems as if a lesbian couple from Rhode Island was given permission to marry in Massachusetts by Superior Court Justice Thomas. E. Connolly. Mary Norton and Wendy Becker have been fighting for their right to marry for quite some time now. They have two children together and have yet to chose a wedding date.

Please read on at tvnz.co.nz

2006-10-02T11:38:00.000-05:00

Meetgaycouples.com Also Looking for Gay Couples!

Having met many same-sex couples during the process of the show, I've realized that many don't have close friendships with other gay couples. Where are you all? I found out where! meetgaycouples.com is a site where gay couples can find each other for fun or "fun".

Please visit them when you get a chance. Here's a little blurb from the co-founder, Russ:

An online community by gay couples, of gay couples, and for gay couples

We know first hand that it's often difficult for gay couples to meet other gay couples. Personally, we tried various internet groups and websites, but came to realize they're mostly just a marketplace for porn sites, mortgages and erectile dysfunction aids. Our quest to meet or correspond with other committed gay couples led us to create meetgaycouples.com. Our desire to provide an online experience where gay and lesbian couples can connect with one another, and who really are looking to meet, correspond with, seeking travel companions, or simply just expand their social network with other gay and lesbian couples!

We personally review each and every profile, and approve every member; this ensures our community lives up to its mission... as a place by gay couples, of gay couples, and for gay couples. Some members may be looking for friendships only, others may be seeking playmates -- either is okay, we just ask that you respect the intentions of other members.
Please take a look at some profiles and make sure to tell t hem My Fabulous Gay Wedding sent you!

2006-09-25T12:13:00.000-05:00

Dolphins Fight for Same-Sex Marriage

Well, not really. But it is true that dolphins have homosexual tendencies in the males. Apparently, couples of males spend their entire lives together as affectionate companions and only look for females to reproduce. Sometimes, the couples live with other couples and form foursomes! They probably all go out for sunday brunch as well.
Take a look!

2006-09-21T10:12:00.000-05:00

The Gay Marriage Thing Now Available for Home Viewing

An un-documentary that presents the politics, the piety and the people embroiled in and affected by the same-sex marriage debate, The Gay Marriage Thing resonates with everyday people on all sides of this heated issue. Twenty years from now history books will recount the events fueling the debate over same-sex marriage. What will get lost, however, in the telling of events are the human emotions. More than a documentary, The Gay Marriage Thing is a human history of the civil rights struggle of our time. In a constantly changing cultural landscape this quiet American story will remain a powerful window into the humanity of a great nation.

Director Stephanie Higgins’ extensive production experience from HD, editing, graphics and a host of roles in media production formed the technical motivation for directing and producing The Gay Marriage Thing. Winner of the prestigious Emerson College 2000 EVVY Award for Best Graduate Project upon earning her Master’s Degree in Visual Media Arts, Higgins has continued her driving desire to learn by delving into a wealth of production, editing, graphics design, and media manipulation applications. This multitude of experience has led Higgins to establish SassyMedia. The Gay Marriage Thing marks Higgins’ directorial debut.

The only film of its kind to present a balanced look at the politics, the piety, and the people embroiled in and affected by the debate over same-sex marriage, The Gay Marriage Thing has gained success at both gay and mainstream festivals including the Boston Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Reeling: The Chicago Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, The Breckenridge Festival of Film, The New England Film and Video Festival and this November will screen as part of the 2006 Artivist Film Festival in Hollywood.

It's biggest success so far, however, has been the discussions the film has started and deepened. Both straight and gay audiences resonate with The Gay Marriage Thing. The narrative style allows audiences to move beyond the headlines to human emotions.

View the Trailer here:

You can purchase the home video by calling The Cinema Guild at 1-800-723-5522.

Please visit the Official Website.

2006-09-20T13:52:00.000-05:00

My Fabulous Gay Wedding Casting Couples in Toronto, Vancouver and Ottawa Regions

Elvira Kurt is on the hunt for new queer couples getting married in 2006! If you're planning on getting married in the Toronto, Vancouver or Ottawa regions, My Fabulous Gay Wedding wants you!

On August 15th, Elvira Kurt attended the wedding of Joa and Denis, the first of the Fabulous Gay Couples to tie the knot. Denis was in tears throughout the entire ceremony: “I can not put into words what this day has meant to me. Everything has been so overwhelming, I do not even know what to say”. Married in the giant vault at One King West in Toronto, the couple was congratulated by friends and family, some having traveled all the way from Europe. Joa was most emotional getting a video salutation from his best friend Anke who could not travel from Germany for the special day. The evening was a complete success and Kurt could not have been more honored by the final results of the wedding: “These guys really needed and deserved this, I am so happy for both of them and their families”.
MTV’s gay and lesbian oriented station LOGO announced in May 2006 the renewal of the queer nuptial reality program known in the United States as First Comes Love. In Canada, audiences will watch on a soon-to-be-announced network north of the border.

The show is actively seeking same-sex couples that plan on getting married. This season will highlight the diversity of the queer community focusing on the rich and dramatic stories of each relationship. Articulate, energetic and enthusiastic couples that are eager to share their story and their wedding are encouraged to apply by emailing castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca

2006-09-20T11:25:00.000-05:00

Ex NJ-Governer who Opposed Gay Marriage Wants Gay Wedding

So what's the deal with Jim McGreevey? He was opposed to same-sex marriage, had an affair with Israeli Marine, hooked up his boyfriend with a government job he was unqualified for, wrote a book about it and now uses God as a pretext on Oprah? On top of that, he says he wants to marry his partner! This guy flip-flops more than the footwear of the same name.

Read more about McGreevey on these links:

NY Daily News
Ny Daily News (McGreevey on Oprah)
International Herald Tribune

2006-09-18T10:35:00.000-05:00

Nepal Celebrates First Gay Wedding

Not sure how I missed this, but on August 26th, the first couple of gay men were "married" in a small ceremony in Nepal. Gay marriage and homosexuality in general are outlawed in Nepal. Read the full article in Uk Gay News.

"Cheerful and courageous Diya Kashyap (21) and Anil Mahaju (31) hope Nepalese society will accept their relationship and love – and the country’s new constitution will recognize their union." Seems as if even the homos in Nepal are fans of David Beckham. Mmmm David Beckham.

2006-09-12T13:57:00.000-05:00

MTV PSA Asks if Equal Marriage Threatens the Institution

Please check out this very funny PSA from MTV. The clip features several "threats" to a married couple ringing the doorbell, and asks if a gay couple in tuxes is really that big of a threat.

2006-09-12T12:04:00.000-05:00

Elvira Kurt Loves Fabulous Gay Couples

After filming the first two episodes of First Comes Love/My Fabulous Gay Wedding, host Elvira Kurt has gotten to know both couples quite well. "Joa and Denis are such a handful! They're a riot!" says Elvira of the first couple. Joa, Denis and their families connected so well with Elvira, that Joa's mother even knitted a hat for Elvira's baby. Elvira isn't the only funny one on the set with these two around: "Denis actually keeps me on my toes, he's so quick! He also doesn't stop hitting on me!"

The laughter never stopped when Elvira chatted with Fern and Susan. "My sides hurt from laughing so much!" claimed Susan after a painfully funny interview with Elvira discussing their family plans. Fern wants Elvira to stick around after the shoot, "I hate thinking that this is over and we're not going to see her again! I really want to keep in touch!"

Elvira felt quite attached to both couples and really felt the love at both weddings. "I love being the one to give them so many pieces of good news!" Elvira presented Joa with an emotional message from his best friend in Germany which brought tears to the room. She also gave Fern a video message from her mother the day of the wedding after a very emotional argument with her about having a religious ceremony at a same sex wedding just a few days earlier. Elvira was there while Fern finally had closure on a very touchy subject with her mother.

Elvira is at them again, getting to know our next Fabulous Gay Couples: Brian and Neal are getting married in October in a very extravagant wedding! Jen and Emily are flying in from Virginia in December to finally get hitched! How will the next Fabulous Gay Weddings turn out? Please stay tuned and watch the first season on Logo!

Read more on Fern and Susan's wedding and see photos by Alessandro Garofalo by CLICKING HERE.
Read more on Joa and Denis' wedding and see photos by Capture Your Day by CLICKING HERE.

2006-09-05T14:03:00.000-05:00

New Jersey Awaits Same-Sex Marriage Ruling

It seems as if the cousin of forward thinking Massachusetts, New Jersey is next in line for equal marriage. An answer must be given before October 25th by the state's supreme court. Read the full article on 365 Gay .

2006-09-01T11:00:00.000-05:00

Fern and Susan Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding!

On August 27th, after 13 (or is it 15?) years of being together and raising their 7 year old Ronny, Fern and Susan finally broke the glass at a beautiful conservation area in Woodbridge, Ontario. The Kortright Centre provided a beautiful backdrop to their traditional Jewish ceremony. The Rabbi declared them married under the eyes of God, and in front of their entire families. Host Elvira Kurt and wedding planner extraordinaire were delighted with all the results. "This was such a fun wedding, it was just so moving" said Elvira after the ceremony was over.

Catering and Decor were provided by Big Al's Catering Service who can be reached at (905)549-0335.

Fern and Susan had a wonderful meal the night before the wedding at Voglie on Church Street.
They can be contacted at (416) 929-9108.

Susan enjoyed her last night before the wedding at the Gloucester Square Inn

All photography was provided by the talents of Alessandro Garofalo. Alessandro is also providing the lovely brides with a stunning leather-bound album. Please take a look at some more pictures by clicking HERE .

To see Joa and Denis' wedding, click HERE

2006-08-29T12:37:00.000-05:00

Gay Swedes to Marry?

Right now, the Swedish Government grants Civil Partnerships for same-sex couples but they are approaching the subject of allowing full fledged marriages. It's the least Sweden can do after years of queers supporting Abba...

Read the full article at 365 Gay

2006-08-22T13:22:00.000-05:00

Star Productions Spins for Gay Judge

On Saturday August 5th, 2006, Star Productions had the distinct honour of being involved in the marriage of Hon. Paula Hepner and Charmayne Henderson from New York City. The ceremony was performed by Toronto Justice Hon. Harvey Brownstone and Rev. Barbara Rosenfield Douglas at the Old Mill Inn and Spa.

Hon. Paula Hepner is the first judge from the United States to ever be married in Canada.

Star Productions would like to congratulate and celebrate all of those gay and lesbian couples that have decided to share their lives together. To those couples in the US, Star Productions encourages you to make the trip to Canada to enjoy the freedom and respect of a legally binding wedding.

Please visit their website at DJ 102.

2006-08-22T09:34:00.000-05:00

Joa and Denis Celebrate their Fabulous Gay Wedding

After an 11 year courtship, Joa and Denis finally tied the knot in an emotional ceremony in the vault at One King West. "I was like, 'Oh my God! We're getting married in a vault? You guys are amazing'" claimed Joa after the civil ceremony. All awaited the first kiss as a married couple in the secluded room which used to be the vault of the King Street bank. Afterwards the guests enjoyed a 4-course meal catered by One King West itself.

The flowers were provided by Ladybug Florist on Church Street with the artistic intervention of Joa himself!
The stunning pin-stripe suits were provided by Tom's Place in Kensington Market. "The moment I saw that suit, I knew it was the one I wanted" said Denis after selecting their matching suits.
The 2 layer wedding cake was provided by our friends at Daniel et Daniel. The larger layer was a white chocolate mousse, while the smaller was a mango/cassis spongecake.
Karen and Eric Reid from Capture Your Day Photography provided their services for the entire evening surprising the boys.
The boys also made a quick trip to Salon One on Church Street to get properly groomed for the big day.

Elvira Kurt and Fern Cohen were delighted by how well everything turned out. "I feel as if we have really accomplished a Fabulous Gay Wedding" declared Kurt after a job well done. How will the next Fabulous Gay Wedding turn out?

Please enjoy some captures from the exciting wedding.

2006-08-16T10:48:00.000-05:00

Capture Your Day Surprise Fabulous Gay Couple

Our kind friends Eric and Karen from Capture Your Day Photography surprised our couple Joa and Denis at their wedding last night. Host Elvira Kurt presented the photographers to the couple during dinner. "I didn't even notice them at first, I thought they were part of the crew!" claims Joa.

Capture Your Day Photography was founded in 1997 by Karen and Eric Reid in answer to the needs of couples looking for quality photography, made simple at an affordable price. Capture Your Day prides themselves on their ability to capture all the candid moments of the day.

Based out of Burlington, Ontario, Karen and Eric Reid have captured the special daysof couples tying the knot for almost 10 years and have over 30 years photographic experience collectively. We strive to capture expression,emotion, and the essence of the day as it unfolds. The candid and fun style of the photography we offer is ideal for shooting unconventional weddings. Most of the clients who come to us prefer a more relaxed and candid style and we pride ourselves on exceeding their expectations.

2006-08-08T09:45:00.000-05:00

Kosher Dyke Wedding?

These stand-ups give some great one-liners about gay marriage. Laughing liberals pokes fun at the gay marriage ban. Took a look-see!

2006-08-03T10:58:00.000-05:00

Asking Permission to Marry

This really cute PSA demonstrates how ridiculous it is to be asking millions of people for the right to marry. Take a look-see!

2006-08-02T10:41:00.000-05:00

Gay South Africans to Wed by Year End!

The South African government has declared excluding same-sex couples from the right to marry to be unconstitutional. By December 2nd 2006, a Bill must be ready in order to include all people in the wedding woes. It's been quite a run for South Africa, it was only in 1998 that sodomy was decriminilized. Doesn't that make criminals out of most of us?

Read the full story at 365gay.com

2006-07-18T13:32:00.000-05:00

Gay Marriage Leads to Children Born Out of Wedlock and Turtle Humping

Jon Stewart has done it again! This brilliant segment explains how legalizing same-sex marriage can lead into children being born out of wedlock (magic sodomy?) and humping turtles. It's hilarious to see how important it is for right-wingers to stop gays from getting hitched. "Oh! The Humanity!"

2006-07-18T10:56:00.000-05:00

Zimbabwe Punishes Gay Handholding

Sad but true. Robert Mugabe's long history of homophobia continues with this drastic law change. The revised law now states that sodomy is any "act involving contact between two males that would be regarded by a reasonable person as an indecent act". So lesbianism doesn't exist in Zimbabwe? Who does all the landscaping?

Read the complete article at 365 Gay.

2006-07-07T11:36:00.000-05:00

New York Loses Battle for Equal Marriage, For Now

The Supreme Court of New York ruled against the appeal of the ban of same-sex marriage. To add to the insult, they described homosexuality as a "preference" rather than an orientation. How much have things really changed since the Stonewall Riots of 1969?

Read the full article from the New York Times by Patrick Healy Here (registration required)

2006-07-05T10:15:00.000-05:00

GayRites.NET adds “The Gay Love Coach” to forums

Phoenixville PA — GayRites.Net has added “The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching” to it is lineup of advice and opinion forums. The forum is written and hosted by psychotherapist and licensed relationship coach, Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, co-author of the self-help book, "A Guide to Getting It: Purpose & Passion”. Through practical articles, tips, resources and advice, the forum offers the gay male community a safe place to discuss issues and to share knowledge about developing and sustaining satisfying, committed partnerships.

In the forum, Rzepczynski posts expert articles on subjects of critical interest to gay men including “Eight Relationship Success Tips for Coupled Gay Men,” “Squashing The Gay Relationship Killer: Jealousy,” “Why Gay Relationships Work and Fail,” and, currently, 21 other related subjects. Forum visitors are invited to interact with the posted articles and to seek advice from the host.

Rzepczynski notes, “Historically, there have been few resources available to the gay community for fostering healthy and fulfilling lives, particularly in the area of relationships. While there finally appears to be a shift in society's awareness of gay men’s issues, there’s still a crucial void for meeting the needs of gay men for education, guidance and support for dating and building relationships. [..] We as gay men generally aren’t taught how to date effectively and to maintain intimate long-term relationships with other men. So that is the driving force behind this forum — to provide a central hub and interactive community for gay men (both singles and couples) who are seeking information, support and friendship to help them navigate their lives and loves.”

Rzepczynski holds a Master's degree in Social Work from Western Michigan University and is a private-practice psychotherapist in Illinois. He also is a licensed relationship coach and the founder of The Gay Love Coach: Man 4 Man Coaching Services TheGayLoveCoach.com. In 1999, he established his private practice, Personal Victory Counseling, Inc. and launched his coaching business.

GayRites.Net: the .NETwork for same-sex rituals, is devoted to all the rituals of LGBT life, from coming out through marriage to building a life together.

2006-06-29T14:44:00.000-05:00

Elvira Kurt to Host Second Season of My Fabulous Gay Wedding

The hit show, which showcased same-sex couples exchanging vows, returns for a second smash season with a captivating new host! Second City alumnus and television personality Elvira Kurt’s successful career extends from live stand up, to television and film. Her comedy specials have been featured on HBO, The Comedy Network, Showtime and CBC. A Toronto native, and married to a woman herself, Kurt will be guiding the engaged couples on the new season of My Fabulous Gay Wedding through their final weeks of engagement up to their final “I do’s”.

MTV’s gay and lesbian oriented station LOGO has recently announced the renewal of the queer nuptial reality program known as First Comes Love in the United States. Canadians will watch on a soon-to-be-announced network north of the border.

Since the Canadian Senate passed the bill for equal marriage in July 2005, the country has been in the spotlight for its progressive stance on gay rights. This season, new couples will share the spotlight with their experiences and lives, as well as their ultimate expression of love and commitment.

The show is actively seeking couples that plan on getting married in the greater Toronto area between the months of June and December 2006. This season will highlight the diversity of the queer community focusing on the rich and dramatic stories of each relationship. Articulate, energetic and enthusiastic couples that are eager to share their story and their wedding are encouraged to apply at castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca.

2006-06-27T11:08:00.000-05:00

Equality and Freedom Do Not Apply to Gay Marriage

Bill Bennet, the well known conservative writer, politician and radio host discussed his book America: The Last Big Hope on The Daily Show. The book stresses the importance of freedom and equality, but that the nation must draw the line somewhere, somewhere apparently being equal rights to the queer community.

Please watch as Jon Stewart galantly strengthens the Equal Rights Movement with his wit.

2006-06-27T09:16:00.000-05:00

Rhode Island Lesbians Fight for Massachusetts Wedding

Rhode Island residents Wendy Becker and Mary Norton have been together for 18 years and have 2 children together. Yesterday, they fought for their right to marry in the state of Massachusetts. MA law allows same-sex marriage, but dissalows marrying couples who reside in states where it would be forbidden.

Becker and Norton's lawyer, Michele Granda, claims that the RI law does not specifically outlaw same-sex marriage. The attourney general pointed out that the RI law indicates marriage as a union of a "male party" and a "female party".

Read the full article from The Boston Globe.

2006-06-26T14:17:00.000-05:00

My Fabulous Gay Wedding Casting Call Announced for Second Season

Toronto, June 26th 2006 The hit show, which showcased same-sex couples exchanging vows, returns for a second smash season! Since the Canadian Senate passed the bill for equal marriage on July 19th 2005, the country has been in the spotlight for its progressive stance on gay rights. This season, new couples will share the spotlight with their experiences and lives, as well as their ultimate expression of love and commitment.

The show is actively seeking couples from anywhere in North America that plan on getting married in the greater Toronto area between the months of June and November 2006. This season will highlight the diversity of the queer community and focus on the background stories of each relationship. Articulate, energetic and enthusiastic couples that are eager to share their story and their wedding are encouraged to apply at castingfabwedding@yahoo.ca.

2006-06-21T15:42:00.000-05:00

Gay Marriage Ruins State

This clip from Jon Stewart's The Daily Show adequately portrays all the "issues" and "problems" that arise from legalizing same-sex marriage. Please watch!

2006-06-21T09:05:00.000-05:00

Rainbow Wedding Network Magazine Signs National Distribution Contract with Source Interlink Companies

Asheville, NC- In April of 2006 RainbowWeddingNetwork.com (RWN), the oldest online wedding and gift registry for the GLBT community, launched the nation’s first, full color, quarterly magazine dedicated to the GLBT weddings, family and equal marriage rights. Rainbow Wedding Network Magazine has accepted a national distribution contract with Source Interlink Companies. Source Interlink Companies is a leader in the industry and provides marketing, merchandising and fulfillment of various entertainment products, including DVD’s, magazines, books and other related items. Source Interlink serves approximately 110,000 retail store locations in North America.

Each issue of RWN Magazine includes marriage equality news, weddings and honeymoon tips, political reports, family and parenting information, along with a directory of business professionals nationwide who support GLBT rights. Magazine issues will be published in conjunction with special events produced by Rainbow Wedding Network, the Same Love, Same Rights™ GLBT Wedding and Family Expos. Expos are scheduled for October 2006 in Seattle and November 5, 2006 in Philadelphia.

RWN has educated the public about same-sex marriage, GLBT families, parenting rights and health issues for five years. In addition to the network, expos and magazine RWN owns and manages its sister web sites RainbowWeddingExpo.com and RainbowWeddingNetworkMagazine.com.

Co-founder Cindy Sproul states "We are ecstatic about the response we have had from readers and from Source Interlink. We are thrilled with this new opportunity." Co-founder Marianne Puechl adds "It takes time, but equal rights for everyone is the future of our country and society."

Rainbow Wedding Network Magazine is currently available online and in bookstores, cafes, offices and other locations across the country. Yearly subscriptions are available online and plans for expansion of national distribution will begin this fall

2006-06-19T08:51:00.000-05:00

Pride Week Begins in Toronto

The 2006 Pride celebration in Toronto officially begins today. Mayor David Miller will read the proclamation at City Hall today at noon for the Gay Pride Flag Raising Ceremony. The rainbow striped symbol of gay pride will be elevated all week to show the support of the city for the important celebration. The theme for this years celebration is Fearless . Pride's website explains that Fearless is " about the courage to be open about who you are, and to celebrate people in our past and present who make it increasingly possible to live without fear".

Other community events will be held throughout the week including youth group activism, AIDS vigils, art galleries and discussion panels. As for the nightlife, Prism has returned to be the main attraction assembling a 5 part event series. Gabe Shpilt, a promoter for Prism explains "it is important for many people who come to Pride who don't live in metropolitan areas to feel as if they are part of a larger community. The Prism events help unite the community through music and dance in larger venues not usually home to queer events". Prism kicks off on Thursday the 22nd with Ignition at 5ive Nightclub.

Pride Toronto is one of the largest Pride events in the world, and the third largest in North America. The Pride Parade draws in a crowd of millions and this year will be held on Sunday the 25th at 2pm.

For more information of Pride and Prism events, please visit their websites: Pride Toronto and Prism .

2006-06-14T14:34:00.000-05:00

Canadian Band The Habit's Song "Fighter" Stands up for Same Sex Marriage

Stephen Harper's recent announcement that he will be holding a free vote for MPs to revisit the law on same-sex marriage has caused on uproar in the gay community. It has only been since July 2005 that the Canadian senate passed the law making it legal for same sex couples to marry at the federal lever. Now Harper wishes to tap the sensitive subject again, despite concerns of upsetting various groups and communities. Fighter, the latest single from Canadian group The Habit shouts the political message that marriage should be up to the individuals and the love between them.

"We are hoping to get Fighter on every Member of Parliament's iPod this summer so they vote the right way this fall!" claims lead singer Darren Rogers. This Ottawa based band was formed in November 2004 and made its way up to its 8 member group and remains a popular staple in the indi-music crowd.

The Habit had thought they could wait until the summer to release the song Fighter, when their upcoming album would be finished. However, with the Harper government confirming that it plans to re-open the debate “sooner rather than later”, The Habit felt they had to speak up now.

Fighter is available for free download on The Habit’s website www.thehabit.ca, and at www.myspace.com/thehabitca.

2006-06-12T10:07:00.000-05:00

Gay marriage PSA in Austin film festival

Parents, one of three television public service announcements produced in support of equal marriage for same-sex couples, will appear at the Austin Gay & Lesbian International Film Festival (August 26 thru September 6, 2004). Festival programmer Mo Ratel is presenting a segment that will focus on same-sex marriage, including our little 30-second gem.

The spot is part of a multi-media campaign that began airing on radio and television stations and networks across Canada this year. American radio stations began playing our PSAs last month. Our printed media public service announcements begin publication this month.

The campaign was created for us, and our friends at PFLAG, by the inspired team at Zig Inc. The television spots were produced by award-winning Industry Films (with partner companies).
All talent, equipment, time, and expenses were donated by the people and companies involved: a tremendous contribution from the advertising/film/radio industry.

Read the full article at samesexmarriage.ca